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High Tea Afternoon Tea Rules

Afternoon Tea vs High Tea - What you need to know

…and a fabulous afternoon tea in London on a bus while sightseeing.

Let’s have some tea in London, shall we?

High Tea vs Afternoon Tea — are they actually the same thing? Not quite! If you’re visiting London, enjoying a proper afternoon tea is one of those lovely experiences that feels made for a leisurely afternoon. Think delicate sandwiches, freshly baked scones, little cakes and, of course, plenty of tea. But there is a difference between high tea and afternoon tea, and knowing what to look for can help you choose the perfect place to enjoy it in London.

Let's have tea in London - Afternoon tea vs High Tea - Best places to visit

Because high luxury hotels around the world frequently use “high tea” as a marketing term for upscale tiered tea services, the historical distinction has become blurred in popular culture.

Afternoon Tea vs High Tea - what's the difference?

Afternoon TeaHigh Tea
Usually served in the afternoonTraditionally served later in the day
Light mealMore substantial meal
Finger sandwiches, scones and cakesHeartier foods
Elegant tea rooms and hotelsOriginally associated with working households
The experience most tourists are looking for in LondonNot the typical luxury Londo

the best places to have afternoon tea in London

beautiful places to have high tea in London

Claridge for Tea in London

Most Londoners would agree that, for the ultimate afternoon tea experience, Claridge’s is hard to beat.

This legendary Mayfair hotel has been serving afternoon tea for decades, and the setting is every bit as special as the food. Settle into the elegant Foyer & Reading Room and enjoy beautifully presented sandwiches, warm scones with clotted cream and jam, delicate pastries and a carefully selected tea.

It is a classic London experience, and if you are going to splurge on just one afternoon tea, Claridge’s is a wonderful choice.

Best high tea in London experience

The Rubens at the Palace

This stunning boutique-style hotel overlooks Buckingham Palace and its charming Royal Mews, offering exceptional comfort and wonderfully personal service.

It is the kind of place where no request feels too large and no detail is too small.

Why not make your afternoon tea even more special by staying at this beautiful 5-Star hotel?

After a day of exploring London, you can return to this elegant retreat and enjoy the feeling of being right in the heart of the city, just steps from Buckingham Palace.

Best places to have high tea in London

One Aldwych, Covent Garden

A fabulous experience, especially if you like your afternoon tea with a little imagination!

At One Aldwych in Covent Garden, you can indulge your inner child and step into the magical, mouth-watering world of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with their themed afternoon tea.  Served at the time of publication, this is a wonderfully creative take on the traditional experience, with delicious treats inspired by the famous story.

And even when the theme changes, One Aldwych is known for creating an exceptional afternoon tea worth seeking out.

Best Afternoon Tea Experiences in London

Our Favourite Afternoon Tea Experiences in London

Best for first-timers: Claridge’s
Best for luxury: The Ritz
Best for families: Brigit’s Bakery Bus
Best for something fun: One Aldwych
Best for Buckingham Palace: The Rubens at the Palace
Best for a special occasion: The Connaught (or Claridge’s for pure timeless celebration)

7 Golden Rules for Afternoon Tea

As soon as you tell someone you are going to afternoon tea, the lists of do’s and don’ts seem to appear from everywhere! Which fork should you use? How do you hold your teacup? Are you really supposed to eat the scone in a certain way?

Relax! We found that if you stick to these 7 simple golden rules, you’ll be more than okay. You can enjoy the lovely setting, delicious treats and a good cup of tea without worrying about getting every little detail right. After all, afternoon tea is meant to be enjoyed — and you’ll still be a perfectly good guest. 😊

  • Dress appropriately and be on time. (Your invite will give all the detail.)
  • Never place your phone or handbag on the table. (If you’re not a doctor, switch off your phone before you enter the room.)
  • Remember the nr. 1 rule: “Dab, don’t wipe.” Never wipe your mouth with your napkin. Just dab to clean where necessary.
  • Don’t lick your fingers and don’t put your teaspoon in your mouth.
  • The proper way to stir your tea is “up and down” (not in circles), and then place your teaspoon in the saucer. Never drink from your teacup while the spoon is in it.
  • Hold your teacup by the handle. Don’t wrap your hands around the teacup.
  • Never dunk anything: not the scone and certainly not the sandwiches.

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A first experience of having tea in London

The first time I went for afternoon tea, I felt like I was doing everything wrong! I was suddenly conscious of every move — which spoon to use, how to hold the cup, and even how to eat that little scone sitting in front of me. 😂

The company you’re with makes a big difference too. Let’s be honest, in today’s day and age, we can’t afford to be too stringent about every tiny rule. You are there to enjoy the day, the company and the experience — without worrying about a disapproving glare from across the table!

So learn the basics, relax and enjoy yourself. These seven simple golden rules will help you feel comfortable, but they certainly shouldn’t stop you from having a wonderful afternoon.

Afternoon tea in London - what you need to know - tips and tricks of a High tea
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When served on a traditional three-tiered afternoon tea stand, the food is usually enjoyed in three courses. So where do you start to eat?

1 – Start at the bottom: Savoury sandwiches and finger sandwiches will normally be on the bottom tier.

2 – Move to the middle: The middle tier is usually reserved for the scones, served with delicious clotted cream and jam.

3 – Finish at the top: And then you end with the top tier — the sweet treats, cakes and pastries.

THE EASY RULE TO REMEMBER:  Start with the savouries, move on to the scones, and finish with the sweet treats.

NICE TO KNOW:  You can use your fingers to eat the scones and sandwiches. Whenever something is too big for 1 or 2 bites, you can simply break it in half with your fingers.  It is not considered bad manners.

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Afternoon Teas and/or High Teas are always a special experience.  A truly mouthwatering selection of crustless sandwiches, scones with clotted cream and jam, sweet cakes, and pastries.  Experience the best.  Book somewhere stylish and dress for the occasion.  After all, this is something you must experience at least once in your life.  We really recommend it.  It’s great fun, especially if you share the experience with someone special.

Fun Afternoon Tea Bus Tour

This is a great idea for friends traveling together, a family celebration, a girlfriend’s day out or just as a very special experience where you can have tea in London while doing some sightseeing.

Brigit Afternoon Tea Bus in London High Tea

Brigit’s Bakery & Afternoon Tea Bus

These tours offer a wonderfully fun way to combine afternoon tea with London sightseeing.

Climb aboard a beautifully restored vintage double-decker bus and settle in for sandwiches, freshly baked scones, cakes and tea while London unfolds outside your window.

  • The route takes you past some of the city’s best-known sights, including Big Ben, the Houses of Parliament, Buckingham Palace and Harrods, so you can see quite a lot without spending the afternoon walking between attractions.
  • It is particularly appealing if you are short on time, travelling with children, or simply want to experience London from a different angle.

Choose a time that suits your sightseeing plans, sit back, and let London come to you while you enjoy your tea.>>

Before You Book Afternoon Tea in London

Check these five things before making your reservation:

1. Check the dress code:  Luxury hotels may have a smarter dress requirement.

2. Check the menu:  Some places specialize in traditional afternoon tea, while others have themed menus.  Also check the price as some places might be very expensive and put extra strain on your budget.

3. Check dietary options:  Vegetarian, vegan and gluten-free options are available at many venues, but usually need to be requested in advance.

4. Check the duration:  Allow enough time so you’re not rushing off to your next London attraction. (Check if there are two seating times – choose the 2nd.)

5. Book ahead:  The most famous London afternoon tea venues can be very popular, especially on weekends and during busy travel periods.

What to Wear to Afternoon Tea in London

Dress codes across London venues vary considerably. Traditional luxury hotels expect smart or smart-casual clothing (for instance, The Ritz strictly requires men to wear a jacket and tie, while forbidding jeans and sportswear), whereas themed dining options like a sightseeing bus experience offer a much more relaxed environment.

The safest baseline for any afternoon tea or high tea venue is Smart Casual to Daytime Elegant. Aim for the kind of polished outfit you would wear to a nice daytime celebration or upscale lunch.

Versatile “Safe Bet” Outfits:

For Women / Feminine Styling:

  • The Outfit: A floral midi dress, a simple day dress, a jumpsuit, or a midi skirt paired with a soft knit/blouse.

  • Footwear: Ballet flats, dressy loafers, or low block heels. Avoid open-toe flip-flops.

  • Layering: Bring a tailored blazer, cardigan, or light trench coat.

For Men / Masculine Styling:

  • The Outfit: Tailored chinos or dress trousers paired with a collared shirt (an Oxford button-down or smart polo).

  • Layering: A light blazer or a fine-knit merino jumper/sweater.

  • Footwear: Leather dress shoes, brogues, or clean leather loafers (worn with socks or neat invisible socks).

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What to Avoid Anywhere (The Universal “Red Flags”)

Unless you are on an informal sightseeing tour bus or at a casual beachside café, standard hotel tea rooms will turn away guests wearing:

  • Sportswear & Athleisure: Leggings, tracksuits, hoodies, gym tops.

  • Athletic Footwear: Running shoes, scuffed trainers, or rubber flip-flops.

  • Overly Casual Denim: Ripped, distressed, or baggy jeans.

  • Beachwear: Cargo shorts, swim trunks, or bare-shoulder tank tops.

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